What the actual fuck does that even mean? Maybe I'm crazy, but I assume what you meant was you raised your daughter to be a strong, independent woman who was secure in herself, knew her rights, her worth and that she could do anything she set her mind to. I rasied 3 boys to be good, decent men...I wonder what that particular commenter would say about that?
I'm a woman (obviously), and I've written things complaining about the behaviour of certain men (some if it hyperbolic and tongue in cheek), but I am aware there are good guys out there, I married one.
But back to the comments you received, wow, just wow! All I can say is some people really suck!