What? You're not making sense here. You appear to be conflating several different issues.

Yes, the older generation has a responsibility to raise the ones that follow. So? What's your point? I raised 3 boys who are wonderful men. In fact, it was you who made a point of the fact that the younger generation of men is not like the men we "women over 30" complain about. I guess we did a good job in raising them then. And as for messaging, most young men I know, mine included, are intelligent enough to know that when they hear or read something that doesn't apply to them it, you know, doesn't apply to them.

As for the rest, it was crystal clear and you know it. I simply demonstrated several of the reasons us older gals might complain. I did so in question form for emphasis. You calling it strange doesn't change the facts and it certainly doesn't bolster your position. In fact, it comes off more as gaslighting. I doubt you intended it, but, you know, messaging.