Why is that a big deal? Not for you, for them I mean. I too, as you know, live over here in reality and like it fine. However, when attending religious stuff, weddings, funerals, bar mitzvas, whatever, I can act like a bit girl and be respectful, to the person I came to support, not the institution. I suspect that's what you were doing. But now I have to read on because maybe I just spoke out of turn.