Yeah, it's frustrating. I find the Democrats alternate between the complacency you mention and a series of frantic, hair-brained big schemes to land a knock out blow to Trump. I swear, the only thing I can compare it to is a Roadrunner and Coyote cartoon.
All the while, nobody is out talking to the people about the real issues facing the country.
Imagine, a real leader...that'd be something!