Yes, I often do too, or I end up putting my hair up when I'm out and about because as soon as the air hits my hair (especially humidity), I go from what looked cute indoors to just a mess of hair. If I may be so bold, here's the one I wrote, it's about my experience, and about how my adopted mother used to reminds me all the time that I wasn't white and how that didn't make sense to me for a long, long time: https://mistyrae.medium.com/dont-forget-you-re-not-white-613f64a7256a