YES!!! Thank you for writing this!! I've been cheated on many times. I've been the other woman once. When I reconnected with my high school sweetheart after 20 years apart, we had a bit of an affair for about 3 weeks before we both left our respective partners. And then I endured 6 years of online abuse as a man stealing whore. Honey, I can't steal a man! If you need to put your man on a leash and watch and monitor his every move, he's not "your" man, maybe get a dog, they're amenable to leashes, just sayin'