You can think what you like. Hey, if wanting to go about the tasks of my day without being fearful of my safety or being eyed up and being treated like a piece of meat is wanting to have my cake and eat it too, then yeah, I sure guess I do. Yes, there are lots of decent me, but this isn't about them, it's about the creepy ones who ruin it for everybody. And no, I don't have a problem with men, I know you want to reduce it to that because it makes it easier for you to refuse to consider the possibility that my experiences are valid, but that just doesn't make it so.