You speak the truth! I was. More fool me with my stupid need to go above and beyond. And yes, he LOVED the power of it. Like I said, I'm a recovering people pleaser.

The cleaning thing....the place was a hot mess. He wasn't going to be allowed to come home from the hospital if the place was in the condition it had been left in (adult social services got involved, long story). I have no idea how a person gets shit on a wall (explosive poopies?)