Your hate is understandable. When the one person on the planet that's supposed to love you betrays and abuses you, what else would you feel? She deserves your hate.

On the flip side, you've got some Momma bears right here for ya. You know I have a soft spot for you, like the little mini me daughter I never had, even though I don't know you in person.

You've said often that you're not loveable. You are. But you can't be loveable to someone who doesn't love herself. Make no mistake, as someone who had a mother who hated her to another, the fault was not and never was yours. it's a tough idea to wrap your head around, but I promise, it's true.