You're a good sport, I'll give you that.

So, to your point, I do think there's a "male" standard of beauty that's imposed on women and that's perpetuated by the media. And before anyone gets all in their feelings, I've been largely a beneficiary of it.

That said, yes, women are absolutely responsible for their own behavior. Hating on a fellow female based on looks does nothing but divide us and harm our cause. Some women are beautiful, some aren't, some are thin, some aren't. We need to move past measuring worth on that basis.

I do understand biological imperatives, but woman to woman, hating on me because I happen to have fallen out of the womb this way is ridiculous. A house divided never stands and all that, that's my point.

I appreciate your good humour and openness, tell your "friend" I said hi.