You're beautiful to me and to your daughter, I'm sure. I don't fight the same battle as you, my chronic illnesses are mental, but the day to day stress, etc. gets in my way too. It's not the same, I get that, but I also get what you're saying.
Personally, I appreciate your honest narratives about what chronic illness looks like for you. It's great to see everyone "killing it," but I appreciate more authenticity and that's what you bring to the table.
Do what you can. Forget the rest. You're doing the best you can and that's all you can do.