You're not wrong. The thing about hard truths are those are the ones we need to hear and I thank you for that.

Going over our relationship in the past, I had no idea about the stealing, but I certainly made excuses and/or was willfully blind to maladaptive behaviour. I knew something was off, deep down, I think because when she invited me to come over and stay at her place for a girls weekend (she lived about 90 minutes away from me), every fibre of my soul screamed NO...That was telling me something.