You're preaching to the choir, girl! I used to be a sucker. Inside (you may be surprised), I'm a softie. I can't stand the idea of someone going without. Or couldn't.

I've been used so many times, it's embarrassing to admit. Funny thing, when I find myself struggling, I shut my trap and dig my own way out.

Anyway, the sad truth is, there are people out there who are professionally pathetic. I have one next door to me now. Every conversation is , "Do you have?" Could you please?" "Could you spare?" Every time I see him, there's a sob story. Ummm, no.

I am done. And the only thing worse than that guy is the professionally pathetic with kids. Kids, sadly are great accessories and sympathetic little beings. I mean, how can you turn down a wee child? It's a grift.

I prefer now to focus my help toward those who are actually trying to make their lives better. There are good people doing their best and not quite making it, especially in this economy. But I'm done with those who seem intent on making a living off the kindness of others.